Planning a solo women trip? Let us look at some of the essential tips that you can use for your upcoming solo women trip.
Dear women, I write this article with a lot of love and excitement. As the fairer sex (which in itself might be an incredibly sexist way to address us! But, I digress), we are hard-core champions.
Whether it is multitasking and slaying the corporate life, taking care of family and home (which is two full-time jobs combined, with no off-days!), or writing content online to create awareness in however little way possible, women are doing it all and killin’ at it!
However, traditionally, we might have been bound by the expectations of society and confined to our roles as defined by others. But, no more! Women are conquering newer heights on a day-to-day basis, redefining what can be achieved and breaking notions of what defines being a woman.
With an ever-increasing number of solo women travelers, the curiosity to explore the world is increasing, and women are dropping their inhibitions to see the world for themselves. Statistics show that the world over females is traveling solo far frequently than their male counterparts.
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Also, I am sure a few might ask what’s the need for a separate guide for women if we consider ourselves to be so equal? To the questioners, I say, being equal doesn’t mean we don’t have different needs or that we don’t have to navigate the world differently. The point of equality isn’t to erase our identities, but, to provide a safe environment for us to be our utterly diverse selves. #mytakeonfeminism
So, dearest dame, if you haven’t embarked on a solo expedition yet, I am hoping to be your source of knowledge & comfort. I know, I know, there are endless blogs online covering this exact topic; I am just throwing in my 2 cents! Let’s dive into the deep end, shall we?
Traveling with friends and family is a rewarding experience. Most importantly, when you need to reminisce and revisit a place from the time gone by, someone will understand the exact moment and the exact emotions that moment evokes in you. That is a pretty special bond to share.
Traveling alone will make you uncomfortable, put you in situations where you have only your quick wit to rely on, and make you far more responsible for yourself and aware of your surroundings. Indeed, it can sound daunting to the unprepared and inexperienced. But, and this is a big but, you will be your boss, do as you fancy and make plans only for yourself.
Being selfish is such a luxury; you’ll be addicted to the feeling. As women, we are often prepared to take on the role of caretaker from a very young age. As women, we are ones people rely on. We’re taught responsibility and sacrifice as part of our ethos. So, when we get to break free from the notion of Woman, it is such an evolution of perspective. Be selfish, ladies – it is a joy!
While traveling in a group setting is often comfortable, solo travel is out there to challenge us! The confidence you’ll gain in yourself and the escalated trust on your abilities will stay with you long after the trip ends and, THAT, I genuinely believe, is a beautiful bond to share with yourself!
You will feel an immense sense of achievement. It is a different feeling altogether to do things on your solo expeditions. You’re the only one to pump you up and give pep-talks, you’re the only one who is responsible for safeguarding essential documents (read identity cards, credit cards, cash, etc.) and eating alone can be a triumph in and of itself.
Now, you won’t need to convince a buddy for a random off-beat location you have wanted to explore or accommodate anyone else’s itinerary into yours. You’re calling the shots, and you get complete freedom in choosing your pace. This freedom will introduce you to who you are, stripping off layers of activities you partake in, and leaving behind the things you’re genuinely passionate about.
Want to curl up beside the hotel pool and read a book? No one to stop you! Craving for some local delicacies that might gross other people out? Dig in and enjoy, as you please! Feeling a burst of energy and want to go on a long walk exploring the random alleyways of a small town? By all means, you’re the master of your time.
To awaken quite alone in a strange town is one of the pleasantest sensations in the world
Well, let’s look at some of the essential tips for solo female traveling in detail. I hope you enjoy them, and in case you think I missed something, I will be glad to hear in the comments sections.
Genuinely enjoying the great gin-joys of solo travel is elevated by your choice of travel. Why you want to go to a particular place and to understand your attraction to that location will help you have a more enriching experience. While research is essential, and your safety MUST be your paramount concern, please note that you must be realistic in your inquiry.
Ladies, we are infamous for the satirical amount of packing we partake in before the trip. Yes, yes, we pack the essentials that others might forget, and yes, they WILL be using your toiletries and essentials as and when required. But, we are alone and packing for ourselves. Let’s not overindulge.
Of course, this requires genuinely knowing your travel style. I, for one, avoid wearing heels at all costs, but every vacation I have taken, I have packed a pair – JUST IN CASE! Why? I fail to understand, as well. Have the said pair of heels ever been used on any trip? Nope, not at all. Know yourself and pack accordingly.
It is a daunting task to venture out on your first solo trip. Just know that things will not go your way entirely. Have the crux of your journey planned and fit everything else in between.
So, ensure your flight/bus/train tickets to and from your destination are booked, you have your first day’s accommodation all planned, and you have a list of things you’d like (more or less) to do. Keep some buffer in your schedule and enjoy your own pace. Also, have enough cash and spread it out across your bags.
Travel insurance is easily the most skipped item on any list. But, I am a big advocate for the same. Whether you’re traveling internationally or locally – ensure you get a decent plan.
It is your haven. Regardless if you meet a cool boy at a pub, make some new friends with the locals, you can never be too safe. Make plans to meet up in public spaces. During random conversations, if people are curious to know where you’re staying, just be vague(which is a great skill to learn)!
Yes, it is essential to document your trip, but try avoiding social media in general and immerse yourself in the now! Women tend to lead busy lives and have a lot of multitasking they manage on a day-to-day basis.
We are so used to being busy & having something to do that when all the pretense of societal living is stripped off; we might start feeling a bit uncomfortable and, for the sake of familiarity, start messing around with our gadgets. Resist the urge. Be comfortable in your skin and soak in all that is around you!
While it is joyous to be alone, it is also equally fun to meet new people. Whether it is a local cooking class or any of the multiple tours that go on in most cities – take part in some activity. Great way to open up new horizons.
If you ever start feeling uncomfortable in a situation, take stock of the situation and remove yourself from it as inconspicuously as possible. While you might seem to think it is an overreaction on your part and you’re reading too much into a situation, your gut is more durable than you might think. Just be proactive and alert, and if you’re not feeling it, it is entirely okay to choose to disconnect.
This trip is all about you and you alone – don’t feel like you’ll be offending someone (that you might barely know in the first place!!) by choosing yourself. Also, pepper sprays should always be carried, regardless of whether you’re traveling or not.
Make sure to have multiple copies of emergency contact numbers with one in each of your travel bags. If you are traveling solo, in adverse situations, you don’t want to be stranded for help. Not just a physical list, you should have these contact numbers on your speed dial or as emergency calling numbers on your phone. Useful to include your Hotel’s name on your list of contacts.
Always have something to munch on and boost your energy while you travel. If you are more of an adventurous type, you are bound to find yourself in areas where food might not be easy access like in the cities. Mint, candy, protein or energy bars and a water bottle is a must.
Always have a packet of Glucose and a few tablets of Digene. Glucose will help for an instant energy boost, and Digene will help as you will be eating out mostly.
Must always break the norm and do more! 😉
Don’t be afraid to be open to new experiences. Being worried about your safety might be a legitimate concern, but it is a concern to be aware of, not to be obsessed about. Don’t be afraid of interactions. Most people are inherently like us, and not everyone is out to get you. The odds are most likely in your favor. That being said, don’t be foolhardy and brash either. Walk the fine balance.
Now that you know you want to go and how to go about going, you need to pick a place! There are some great resources online in helping you choose. The first and foremost question you’ll have to answer is whether you want to explore something in your own country or take an excursion in foreign lands. Both are viable options, with different beasts to tackle.
India gets a bad rep when it comes to solo female travel. But, I have experienced legitimate joys and unforgettable conversations with strangers on my own soil.
The hills have a charm of their own, are very safe, though slightly tedious to access. Whether you’re choosing the Himachali hills or their Uttrakhand counterpart, whether the North-East is calling out to you, or the Ghats in Western India – all are viable and beautiful options.
The beaches of Goa, Gokarna, Kerala all offer an amazingly relaxing vacation with lots to contemplate and explore! Coonoor and Pondicherry are beautiful locations where you can idle around and enjoy the local culture. The places to count are endless.
Internationally, of course, it might be a bit easier in terms of unwarranted attention from the opposite sex but comes with challenges of its own. Not knowing the local language, not like the cuisine, being too homesick for the familiar are all possible complications. But, with a starkly different experience, you will have the place to call your own, forever!
Living in a very patriarchal society, the traditional definition of a woman’s role has been the house-maker. Thus, I truly believe we have more hunger for individuality & independence than men of our generation or any generation for that matter.
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Wanting to do as we please is a luxury, and while we might feel uncomfortable doing it and breaking stereotypes- the desire to be acknowledged as an individual, a human, surpasses any of the hesitations. Studies say that women who take one trip every year are happier and productive.
You are reading this page, knowing you want to go on an adventure just for yourself. Don’t be hesitant and take the plunge, dear wanderer!
So what are you waiting for? Book your tickets, pack your bags, make sure you have everything we listed above, and say adios to your day-to-day life. Comment below if you have any questions and concerns. I will be happy to help and respond!
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